Is life full of twists and turns or can it be like a wide open road if we want it to be?
So as Im watching things unfold, life is taking funny shapes in front of me. Im beginning to learn who are friends and who want to be and then who I thought to be friends and who pretend to be…and so on!
I had this converstion with a friend. She has a fundamental that a person has to earn her trust before she can trust him/her. Mine is exactly the opposite. I need to start with trust before I can interact. Practicality says that my friends choice is better but for me its very difficult to work if I dont trust a person. I learn only when that trust gets broken. Theres no right or wrong but just the way we operate.
The way I operate, the potential to get hurt is very high. And yes ofcourse Ive been hurt many times over and have tried to operate on my friends’ model but failed miserably. Each time I think I shouldnt trust so blindly and every time I do exactly that and more often that not got hurt.
But then this is me….I function like that :) Makes me more vulnerable yes but then I put myself out there for whatever its worth and someone somewhere will watch this and help me. That someone somewhere has helped me till now and will help in the future….In Hope I believe and In Trust I have faith!